Premarital counseling is a fabulous thing to work with. I have been married for over 30 years now and I love my husband more now than I did the day I married, and thats because we really worked on that relationship. You lay down the foundation before you get in bad habits, or I call it the dance that the couple does, and if you're stuck and this one person always has to go this way then thats probably going to cause problems. Because when we got married we were in our 20’s now we are in our 50’s, and so we are different people than we were then. We have to have the skills to be able to kind of go with that and adjust and adapt to the changes and learn how to work together. I call it the 3-legged race you got ot be able to have that one leg tied together and still move thru. So give me a call or if you are thinking about getting married.